Monday, July 20, 2009

Friends o' friends

Friends are obviously so very important to most of us. The 'gelling', the vibing, the many things in common and even endearing differences...they are all a part of that world.

But, what about the tricky matter of friends of friends? Ahhh. Sometimes it clicks and sometimes it does n't.

I have a few friends whose friends easily become mine -- well if not my FRIENDS then, my very amiable acquaintances. But with so many other friends, I can barely tolerate their friends and vice-versa. It is a rather delicate situation really. What if your friend's friend cribs to your friend about you and / or you crib to your friend about his/her friend? (Ahem, not sure this sentence makes sense!) Anyway, unnecessary and sticky for the friend sandwiched in between.

Therefore, apart from a few well-thought-out experiments, me thinks it's best to stick to one's own friends and let them stick to theirs separately, rather than throwing all together once, twice, too often!

Note: Personal experience may or may not be the lead to this post!
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Cheers!

5 comments:

ummon said...

curious oh so curious

Blogeswari said...

Tees - Yes I can relate to this .. you know who

Ummon - You know who, ofcourse!

Teesu (very very Indian, very very good) said...

I don't know who! Not that I want to...

ummon said...

WHOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO? bubby your friend's friend i know. but who is teesu's friend's friend? or is she talking about friend itself who gets annoying.
teesu, my dear friend, please enlighten.

Blogeswari said...

Tees - please let me .. please let me ... have been wanting to say for quite sometime.. please

Umm - ade ade ade
Tees' friend? teriyadu